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As someone who has spent over three decades in executive search, leadership consulting, and volunteering, parenting, managing, and teaching, I’ve had the privilege of working closely with countless leaders from countless organizations. And, through this journey, I’ve come to recognize certain traits that consistently set effective leaders apart from the rest. 

Before we go any further I want to clarify that I’m not just talking about leadership in the workplace. These traits are a must for anyone who wants to ensure they are heard, understood, respected, and valued, whether that’s a boss, teacher, parent, or simply someone who interacts with others – oh wait, that’s everyone, right?!

Here are what I believe to be the top 7 traits of effective leaders – traits that we just verified are important for EVERYONE to prioritize and practice!


Effective leaders have a deep understanding of themselves. They are aware of their strengths and weaknesses, and they use this self-awareness to make informed decisions. When you know your own limitations, you can surround yourself with people who compliment your skills and talents. Self-awareness also allows you to be authentic, gaining the trust and respect of those around you.


Empathy is a cornerstone of effective leadership. Leaders who can empathize with others create a positive and supportive environment. They take the time to understand the challenges others are facing and show genuine concern for their well-being. By acknowledging and addressing the needs of others, empathetic leaders build strong, loyal relationships.

Communication Skills

Clear and effective communication is crucial for leadership success. Effective leaders are skilled communicators who can convey their ideas, expectations, and vision to others. They listen actively, ask questions, and provide constructive feedback. Moreover, they are adaptable in their communication style, tailoring it to the needs of different people and situations.

Vision and Purpose

Great leaders inspire through their vision and sense of purpose. They have a clear and compelling vision for the future and are able to articulate it in a way that motivates others. This vision serves as a guiding light, aligning the efforts of all those involved toward a common goal. Leaders who infuse their work with purpose motivate and inspire others to go above and beyond.


In today’s rapidly changing world, adaptability is a vital trait. Effective leaders embrace change, see it as an opportunity for growth, and help those around them navigate through it. They are open to new ideas, willing to take calculated risks, and quick to adjust their strategies when needed. Adaptability ensures that leaders and their teams remain relevant and resilient.


Accountability is not just about holding others responsible; it starts with holding oneself accountable. Effective leaders lead by example, taking ownership of their actions and decisions. They set clear expectations and follow through on commitments. When mistakes are made, they acknowledge them and use them as opportunities for learning and improvement. By being accountable, leaders foster a culture of responsibility wherever they go.


The best leaders empower others to excel. They trust those who follow them to take on responsibilities and make decisions, providing them with the autonomy and resources needed to succeed. Empowered people feel a sense of ownership and pride in whatever they do, leading to increased creativity and innovation. A leader’s role is not just to direct but to enable and elevate others.

Remember, these traits are not something you’re born with. They are skills that can be developed and strengthened over time with dedication and practice. As you strive to become a more effective leader, it helps to know that it’s a journey of continuous growth and learning. By embodying these traits, you can lead anyone who follows you to success and leave a lasting legacy of inspiration and achievement.